“The advice Jeffrey gives is so succinct and so intimately personal that I swear, if your brain could change colors in reaction to humans, Jeffrey’s words would turn your brain bright pink.”

How To Be You is the best-selling definitive guide to self-esteem that topped O Magazine's Gratitude Meter.
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You will break through the walls you've built in the mistaken belief that there is something wrong with you. How To Be You is a workbook. How To Be You is a practical self-respect guide. How To Be You is an inspiring and delightful memoir of growing up different, and living without shame.

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This book is about how to finally give up on feeling bad about yourself and discover the best person you can be.

An interactive experience, How To Be You invites you to make the book your own through activities such as coloring in charts, answering questions about how you do the things you do, and discovering patterns in your life that may be holding you back. Through Jeffrey's own story of "growing up fabulous in a small farm town"-along with the stories of hero/ines who have transcended the stereotypes of race, age, and gender-you will discover that you are not alone, can deepen your relationship with yourself, and find the courage to take a leap that will change your life.